The brackets came out for the District 10 championship games today I didn't get past the Class A baseball game between Rocky Grove and West Middlesex.
I'm not a flag waver, nor am I a veteran. My work, however, has put me face to face with veterans, people who were put face to face with unthinkable choices and who lost very important people in their lives in unfathomable ways.
These are generally older folks who don't ask for anything for their service other than the right to be proud of their country and the small (but huge) part what they accomplished in service and for the love and respect for those who did not come back... or have since left us.
One day. Just one day.
And I'm guessing most would be happy with just the half the day they set aside for a tiny service few attend or a parade that draws politicians running for office and a few others to pay tribute in their hometowns..
As the Rocky Grove baseball team will be taking the field in Slippery Rock on Monday, the community they are from will be paying tribute to the fallen back home. Some are parents and grand parents of those players who now have to choose between their commitment to their honor as soldiers and their commitment to honor of their family.
Most know the answer of what to do, but I can't help wonder why they have this burden of choosing to begin with?
Family always first, but I know many of these old soldiers and they have more than one family, those of blood and those of another kind of blood.
It would be a very simple thing for the PIAA or District 10 to push back the playoff games to after 3 p.m. or hold them on Sunday of Memorial Day weekend instead of Monday.
As a newspaper photographer I found myself rushing from event to event and making compromises to coverage. Do I cut out early from the memorial services that showcases the importances of fighting for what our constitution stands for in order to get to a baseball game 30 miles away to perhaps witness a once in a lifetime championship event? It could be easy to say you cover the possible once in a lifetime event of our youth who are our future, but in doing so we miss the opportunity to celebrate, or pay tribute to those who served and who may not be with us the next Memorial Day.
I'll admit each year I cover Memorial Day I questioned what I am doing, hoping I give justice to both. Not all the veterans or those who lost someone have family members playing ball and this one day, and so it means something to them I cannot even imagine.
I know I have seen grand parents at the morning parade rushing to an afternoon game to be sure to honor both of their blood families. But this 10 a.m. game means they cannot and I really think that it is time the PIAA and District 10 step up and find an alternative. America --or the United States of America is about hot dogs, apple pie and baseball, but is it really? And can't we have that, if it is true, and still honor our people who have sacrificed for at least one day of the year? Or at least half the day, in the morning when we hold these memorial services and parades?




RSS Feed